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When Sales Calls Border on Stalking

  
  
  
  
  

Sales Calls StalkingRecently I received a sales call from a person, let’s call him Bob, who wanted to discuss how a partnership with his firm could be beneficial for Huthwaite. He was referred to me by a colleague and I was very open to speaking with him. In the first few minutes of our discussion he dropped into the conversation the names of two colleagues from my college drama class, the name of the high school that I attended in Australia and that he, like me, also admired the artwork from another friend of mine who happens to promote her exhibits through social media.

Needless to say, he had my attention. If personalising the opening of your sales call is a good thing then Bob scored high marks. It was obvious that he had done his homework on who he was calling on. He used all of the available search engines, websites and social media to research his customer. As such, he differentiated himself from other sales person who has called on me. All good things and something that every person in sales should be striving to achieve within five minutes of a first meeting with a potential customer, right...? Maybe not.

Some knowledge isn’t power. While I admit that Bob had my attention I also felt another emotion - that my privacy had been violated. It aroused in me suspicion, and I began quietly asking myself (while Bob was talking about his firm and its advantages) if this was preparation or sneakiness? Was Bob professional or slippery in his approach? Do I admire his customer-focus or start to worry if he also has my bank account number? The more I pondered those questions, the more Bob began to lose a critical element to any sale - trust. It seemed the more he knew about me, the less credibility he had.

Yes, information about all of us is out there and available through clever navigation of the web. For better or for worse, anyone can find out more information about you than you are probably willing to share. But knowing personal information about your prospect doesn’t necessarily mean it will help you make the sale. It may actually do the reverse.

I have spoken about this to other business leaders recently and have heard almost unanimous agreement. It’s not that research before a sales call isn’t important. Just focus it on where it will help you create maximum value for the customer. Your customer doesn’t care if you know her personal interests, but she does care about any insights you can bring to help her manage her operations more effectively. When it comes to making a business purchasing decision, it’s irrelevant to your customer if you know his birthday, have also vacationed in Corsica, used to go to the same school or support the same football team. But he will see it as extremely relevant if you can leverage your research to ask problem questions that will help him see his business problems in a different light.

What are your thoughts on the use of available media to learn about your prospects and customers? Is there a place for this and where is the line that can be crossed?

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Comments

James - what an amusing post. A few faces came to mind when you described your "stalker" - I've worked with a few and also been on the receiving end of such approaches. If I'm in the market to purchase, I'm not usually in the market for a new best friend as well. I too find this over familiar approach off putting. Interestingly if the approach is male to female it is even more off putting.
Posted @ Wednesday, May 26, 2010 7:10 PM by Wendy Alexander
Hehe. Quite an interesting conundrum! Part of me agrees with you. Another part of me feels that your discomfort may be generational. Is it not just the shift between networking and social networking? Several generations ago, in certain circles it was considered impolite approach a marriage partner other than through intermediaries. Now online "friending" seems to suit a growing number of people. 
 
 
 
I must admit, it sounds as though this fellow is a Gen Y chap who didn't realize Gen X people think differently. 
 
 
 
Similar disconnects exist between cultures. For example, 25 years ago, my father, who'd lived all his life in Europe found it an affront to have his Australian barber ask him whether he had any weekend plans. He's become accustomed to it now! 
 
 
 
My recommendation is to not focus on the cultural faux pas and accept that he's caught your attention. Focus instead on whether he has an attractive business proposition.
Posted @ Thursday, May 27, 2010 6:47 AM by Marcus Crowley
Genuine relationship comes through a process of getting to know a person or a company. It takes time to build and brings with it the opportunity to sell in a consultative or enterprising way. To dump all my "research" on a prospective customers personal life, at the beginning of a relationship will cause them to feel vulnerable. In this high tech age we are all aware of the dangers of fraud and identity theft. Dumping info like this reveals insincerity and a lack of respect. It is a transactional sales person trying to be enterprising and revealing their lack of experience and maturity. Your prospect knows you have found all this out only to sell them . You have no real interest in them as people or companies. Getting to know your customer, their industry, their challenges, the particular business they have and are in, takes time and works both ways. As you get to know them, they get to know you and your company, so a long term real relationship is built. A relationship that benefits both your customer and your company.
Posted @ Tuesday, June 22, 2010 5:23 PM by Rosemary Grubb
How much more value would it have been to that sales person to gain that personal information in the meeting as opposed to reading it on the internet? Personal information freely exchanged builds relationships, personal information tracked down off the web does not. 
 
 
 
It is like a someone thinking they have a relationship with a celebrity because they've read about them in the papers...
Posted @ Thursday, September 30, 2010 8:13 PM by Luke Carle
In our business, we feel that its essential to do as much research as possible on a prospect, with the proviso that the research is relevant to the business.  
 
This will include things like where they currently work, are they a decision maker (etc), where they have worked, are they in a relevant area, are they in any relevant industry groups, etc. 
 
I agree that its irrelevant to find out personal information about a client unless it provides a better insight into their personality type (which you are unlikely to get from reading where they went on holidays!), which in turn would help you to determine the best way of approaching them (if at all). 
 
Another point, we rarely bring up any of this information during our conversations with a prospect. It is almost always as background information, and just helps us to develop the call and the relationship.
Posted @ Wednesday, November 03, 2010 7:42 PM by Craig Munns
Bobs attempt to gain leverage by way of association is insincere and would not inspire confidence nor trust in his prospect.His approach was entirely superficial.If one can gain an insight into a prospects demeanour idiosyncrasies,experience,needs and requirements etc with a view to optimising and presenting a proposal that is most compelling, complimentary and unique to the vision and direction of an organisation thats ok. However this could have been achieved in a transparent and respectful manner by way of lead up contact prior to presenation.If this opptunity was not available then as Luke (above) suggested time taken to build trust and rapport when face to face would have fostered a better place to start the relationship and better demonstrated ones sincerity. It would be my preference to do business with someone genuine even if there product or service was marginally inferior. 
 
 
 
David Grace
Posted @ Thursday, January 06, 2011 10:48 PM by David Grace
Interesting indeed. I believe common friends may get you some of the way but as you suggested only part of the way. Enough at least to stop the phone being put down or been given the common rejection. 
I tend to agree that a lot more homework has to be done in understanding of the industry, their role and common challenges. I agree with David's comments that approach would come across as superficial. Maybe it is as they suggested a generational gap though in accepting that this information is freely available, but the skill is in the application and the use of its relevance to what you are trying to position.
Posted @ Friday, January 14, 2011 1:06 AM by Sean Doyle
Agree completely. This approach is formulaic, but very commonly taught in many sales seminars and supported in even more sales organizations. I am frequently appalled at the unwise and thoughtless way in which not just personal, but company information (i.e., recent success or failure, forecasted future, etc.) is dropped on the table in sales calls in the name of gaining credibility through demonstration of expertise. 
 
 
 
As was very succintly put in another post, PEOPLE make buying decisions. Is it really possible that any sales professional thinks that making someone feel like a failure is a way to inspire them to spend money on your product or service?  
 
 
 
This type of tactic most often reveals a sales pros own lack of confidence in his/her abilities in either sales process, delivery or both. 
 
 
 
On the other hand, there is no harm - rather potential good - in gathering information about a company's struggles...as long as one realizes that information should only be used to help dictate the right questions to ask during the sales conversation and (unless it's some type of glowing public report such as an award or a recent significant contribution to charity/the community) never to make a prospect squirm by putting him or her on the spot.
Posted @ Friday, April 15, 2011 2:12 AM by Gwen Nelson
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